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The Secret To Getting Men to Commit
Doc:I am dating this guy, and have been for several months. When we first got together he always hinted at marriage. The confusing thing now is he wants to wait and for me to give him space. Sometimes I think it's to get his act together, other times I'm not so sure. He tells me that he love me all the time. I even gave him the decision to ...more >>

In Love At A Distance
Dear Dr. Neder,I met a wonderful girl in beginning of 2002 in San Francisco on a trip from my home in Los Angeles. It felt really natural being around her. She is highly educated and graduated from the one of the best law schools in the country. She is very personable, a flirt, has high standards, good moral value, educated, mature, decisive,...more >>

Musings About More Mixed Messages
Hi,I was reading one of your Internet responses to a relationship question, and hope you can help me with mine. I met him at a weekly happy hour. We started as just friends but I noticed that he seemed to only want to hang around me at the happy hours. I knew he was not involvement material so recently out of a marriage, so I kept it light. ...more >>

The Problems With Dating Single Mothers
Doctor:I just read the article "Read and Heed" on your website concerning dating a single mom.It seems to be saying dating a single mom is a terrible thing and men should keep away at all costs. If a man is truly in love with a woman, he will accept the children just to be with her. Besides, the children will eventually grow up and move out...more >>

Making Eye Contact
Hi,My question for you is:About a month and a half ago my fiancé and I broke up after 3 years. I am trying to get back into the singles dating scene but I have a problem. Most of the time when I try to make eye contact with a girl, even if I notice that they were checking me out they look away so that I can't make contact. It is hard to go ...more >>

The Unfaithful Boyfriend
Hello!My boyfriend tells me that he wants to be with me but he can't be faithful. He says that he'd rather be a friend with me than for me to hate him for the rest of my life. I see hope between us, but at the same time I'm having a problem understanding why men cheat when they have a good woman. I'm afraid that if I drop all conversation ...more >>

"Sensitive to Masculine" in 4 Steps
Dr. Neder,I've been an idiot for a long time. Raised by an singlemother from three to ten I was told all sorts of backward ideas on how to be a man in a relationship. You know the ones: be sensitive, put her on a pedestal, and on and on. This; combined with being a bookworm and extremely shy made it hard to gain confidence. Five years ag...more >>

Work Your Assets – Not Your Liabilities
Dear Dr. Neder,First of all, I really love what you're doing to help other guys. Thank you! I need some advice on getting dates with Caucasian women because I'm an Asian guy – it's so challenging! I'm attractive but women don’t seem to look at me as a possible "boyfriend". I'm not blaming on them at all – I just need some advice. I'm 5' ...more >>

Am I Her Pet?
Hello Dennis: I just came across your site. I am getting your book tomorrow. In the meantime, I met a beautiful young lady three weeks ago through a friend. She never says no if I want to see her and enjoys while we are together. I haven’t kissed her yet, because she said she needs more time before she’s ready for a relationship. I don't w...more >>

Guided Visualization as a Key to Success
Dear Dr.:I am writing to you because I'm in desperate need of some advice. I always feel very tense and shy when it comes to interacting with the opposite sex. My mind goes blank, I get nervous, and feel very self-conscious. To make a long story short, I'm not as successful with women as I feel I could be. There are three main problems that ...more >>

When NOT to Get Married
Dear Dr. Neder,I am a 23-year-old woman engaged to marry a wonderful 28-year-old man in a few months. We have been dating mostly long distance for about 4 years, but throughout that time I have had several other "flings" and even one somewhat serious relationship. He knows about all of these indiscretions, and I have been faithful for the p...more >>

Getting Over Social Phobia
Dr.:For years I thought my difficulty with women was just intense nervousness, so I would just avoid the situation, (you can imagine the results: ZERO!). I was diagnosed with social phobia about 2 years ago. Within the last year I’ve been going out to acclimate myself socially (i.e. concerts, clubs, etc.). I really like music! I've been usi...more >>

It is Time to Get Moving With Women
Dear Doctor:I've put off going after girls for years. I was shy, and I never had the courage to take the next step: dating. There was a good dozen or so times in high school when I could have done something, but I choked. I think I was afraid of the commitment, and I made all kinds of excuses. Now, I'm 21 and I feel like it's really time t...more >>

Do I Have A Chance With Him?
Hi,Four years ago I met a man in the strangest way possible – while driving home from vacation! He pulled up next to me and just looked at me! He handed me a CD through the window. It was a local boy-band, and when I looked at the picture – he was one of the band members! I finally turned off and he continued driving ahead. On the CD cov...more >>

The Basic Skill You d Better Know!
I get so many questions about just how to kiss. Most guys know it's important, but put too little emphasis on doing it well. They think that what they really need is to know how to get phone numbers. Yes, that's important too, but you'd better have some skills in the kissing area AFTER you use that number to get a date! Why is it so import...more >>

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