The contents of a relationship advice:

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Frames, Games, and Prizability…
A while back someone emailed me a great success story. I saved it on my computer and forgot about it. Last week I was going through my computer and found it. I thought, “Wow! - this is a really great story,” and was planning on using it in my last newsletter. But, then, as I was reading through it, I thought to myself, “there is so much good stuff ...more >>

Not All That Shines is Gold
A lot of guys seem to be after ONE woman that they know at work or as an acquaintance. Usually, they've constructed a fantasy image around this one woman. However, I like to remind guys that not all that shines is gold. A few years ago I met a woman online. She seemed fun and attractive in her picture. We agreed to meet each other for coffee at...more >>

The Laundromat Pickup
Ok, you’ve probably heard that Laundromats are great pick up places, better than a singles bar – that’s because they are! Maybe not better, but certainly a great alternative that’s just as good. You can pretend your entire motive is to wash clothes, and that you’re not on the make. The woman won’t have that feeling like you’re just trying to pick h...more >>

When The Right One Comes
Have you ever wanted something so badly that you just weren’t willing to wait for it? Patience runs thin when we are in a hurry and want things right now; especially when it comes to love. It seems we just can’t accept ourselves as we should and just enjoy our own company. We honestly do need to know ourselves before we try to get to know some...more >>

The Art of Breaking Up
Sometimes, relationships run their course. You may be at fault or not, but when its time to bring your relationship to an end, you want to do so cleanly and effectively. Here are some suggestions:1) If you have personal items at your lover's place, you want to begin getting them back. This is much more difficult to do after the breakup. If your...more >>

Reading Between the Lines by Cheryl Lewis
Reading through the personal ads can be a skill, an art in its own. You may find that skimming through the personal ads has become your latest habit, searching for the person that meets your profile needs and desires but without success. Have you been looking for love but in the wrong profiles, or are you searching for more that is not written in...more >>

Finding Someone Special
Browsing through the personal classifieds can be quite frustrating if you really don’t know what qualities or the type of personality it is that you are searching for in the person you are seeking, or in the relationship you are seeking. Questions you need to ask yourself before and as you are reading through the personal sections again are:...more >>

Single in the Mid-Thirties – Things To Consider
It doesn’t matter how you got to be single in your mid-thirties. What does matter, however, is that you have certain priorities in order so that you can protect yourself and those you date from getting hurt. There are too many reasons to list on why you’re on the market at this stage in your life, but you should be clear on your goals, bot...more >>

Dinner and a Movie Again?
Are you tired of the same old routine first dates? Need a change from the dinner and a movie routine? Why not do something that gives you some insight into each other’s personality and is interesting? Not that I’m totally against dinner and a movie as a first date or even a tenth date. There is the benefit that you don’t have to think about w...more >>

Why Very Intelligent Men Fail With Women
I've been teaching men how to become more successful with women and dating for a several years now... and one "problem scenario" just keeps coming up OVER AND OVER... and OVER and OVER and OVER again......and it's really amazes me.I'm going to refer to it as "The Genius Failure Paradox"."The Genius Failure Paradox" is the tendency for UNUSUALLY i...more >>

Dating Tips Q&A: How To Act On The First Date
"How should I act on the first date? What should we talk about? How do you keep the conversation interesting?" These are all questions that I get asked often in one way or another, and in this dating tip I'd like to address this topic. ***MY COMMENTS*** The first thing to remember when you're meeting up with a girl for "a date" is that...more >>

Dating Tips: How To Tell If She is Single
Answers To Two Common Questions... I get different variations of two questions so often, that I'm going to address them both quickly. 1) What if she has a boyfriend? MY COMMENTS: Say "Next" and find yourself a woman that doesn't have a boyfriend. I personally don't think it's worth the hassle, energy, or effort. Plus, I don't like to be the...more >>

Secret of Cues
Cuing refers to the fact that many of our biological drives require an environmental cue or signal to make us aware of them. For instance, if you are busy or distracted you may not notice you're hungry until you smell some pizza. Sexual arousal works in a similar way for women. Sex cues make them aware of their sexual needs. I was talki...more >>

Flirting by Touch
Another person's touch is the most soothing form of contact that your body will even encounter... even when it makes you nervous or uncomfortable, you love the feel of a woman's touch. This is commonly referred to as "kino". This works both ways... a woman loves a man's touch (if done properly), and YOU can learn how to use touching to yo...more >>

Mental Secrets of Guys Who Get Laid
Last week I was in one of my favorite bars with my friend Frank. Now Frank is someone who's always wanted to meet beautiful women, but could never understand how. like most guys I think. So we were sitting there, and I was explaining how seduction works, and why looks really don't matter as long as you have skill. But all he heard me say ...more >>

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