It's critically important to physically touch a woman early on in a
seduction, sometimes referred to as "kino". Here's the scientific explanation of
how and why it works. Then I'll explain how to use touch to reliably get laid.
Touching a woman causes her body to release a powerful sex hormone called
oxytocin. Oxytocin increases a woman's testosterone levels, the hormone
responsible for her sex drive. Oxytocin also causes her to feel a bonding with
you and to feel good around you.
Even for a woman who "never feels like sex" and acts cold, a few touches can
make her horny for sex. It doesn't matter where or how much you touch her - even
a small touch on the arm is enough to release oxytocin hormones into her body
and warm her up to you.
What's more, oxytocin gives her the desire to be touched even more, producing
yet even more oxytocin - a reinforcing cycle of sex hormone escalation.
One other thing... this oxytocin touch response is MUCH more powerful for women
than for men. Oxytocin requires estrogen to work. Without estrogen, it has no
effect. And women have much more estrogen in their bodies than men. Ever notice
how a woman you never noticed before touched you on the hand or shoulder and
suddenly you started to think differently about her - in a sexual way? Well, in
women the effect is 10 times stronger! Don't underestimate how one or two
well-placed touches can make her start thinking about you or even get her wet
between the legs.
Okay, here is how to use this powerful scientific knowledge to get laid.
First, be the kind of guy who is comfortable touching women from the moment you
meet them. Be a physical kind of person. Act as if touching a woman is a normal
thing you do all the time and women will accept that. (If you start touching a
woman all of a sudden after a few weeks, it will seem weird to her, so start
from the very first time you meet her.)
Begin with small touches on the hands and arms to make her oxytocin hormones
kick in. As you progress, play footsies with her under table. Take her hand when
you walk together (don't ask, just take it). Tell her to sit on your lap and
stroke her thighs (again, don't ask just do). The more you touch her in a
playful take-charge way, the more she'll want more touches and then even more.
By the time you're touching her nipples through her shirt the oxytocin hormones
will be raging, shooting her testosterone-driven sex drive into the
stratosphere.
Also, never ask a woman "Can I touch you?" It's creepy. Don't ask. Women like
men of action, assuming you have some form of rapport with her.
Now here's what you do with women who consider you to be "just a friend". Let me
tell you a quick story.
One woman I knew considered me "just a friend" and whatever I said to her didn't
seem to work.
Knowing the scientific certainty of her oxytocin response, I began to work my
spell. At first, I touched her innocently on her arms and hands. No resistance.
Soon I got more playful with her and would grab her by the waist and playfully
wrestle her to the floor when she was being a brat. No resistance.
She kept telling me she only wanted to be friends, but her body was beginning to
tell me another story. She invited me over to a sleepover with some of her other
friends. I took the initiative and lay next to her in bed and neutralized any
objection by telling her how much "I liked being friends" with her. I then
proceeded to playfully tickle her. All the touching made her oxytocin and
testosterone levels flood her body... and she was getting horny under the covers
despite herself.
Pretty soon she was calling ME... and now that we've done the deed, her bonding
feelings for me caused by the oxytocin are firmly entrenched. That's the flip
side of the oxytocin response - once you've got her, your only problem will be
keeping her at arms length!
Now get out there and put those hands to work.
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