Many a man has been at a bar, spotted an attractive woman and thought to
himself, "Wow! She really works those breasts, bouncy bouncy." Next, he went up
to talk to her and within the first thirty seconds of conversation the poor
bastard went belly up as she hammered him to jelly. He, then, walked away
hunchbacked and long faced, wearing an existential funk ten times the size of
his deflated ego.
You can probably relate. I know I can. I've been there about a billion times.
Heck! - I used to be so scared to approach an attractive woman that I'd imagine
her steamrolling me, leaving me for road kill in her wake. How cool is that -
I'd disqualify myself without even talking to her.
Meeting and approaching women is no easy business for those who haven't mastered
the necessary skills. Let's take a look at why this is so.
Realize this: We approach women in the wake of their cuteness - and they know
it. Without them uttering a single word, they hook us in. Half the time, even if
you find them less attractive than the stench of foot and *ass* combined,
they'll still genuinely believe you're hitting on them.
This, of course, is about to change. So keep reading.
Watching most men approach an attractive woman is as depressing as a costume
ball for demented children. The woman is like a pro fisherman with top notch
bait and the guy is like a poor little fish, soon to be chopped up, fried, and
eaten for dinner. Even if he's a fighter, it's too late - he's already on the
hook (Albeit, if he happens to be her physical type, he's got a shot at
success).
I'm also a fish - but an F-ed up, twisted, über alien barracuda. Just when they
feel that they have me on their hook I start throwing bait at them. They start
chomping away at the bait and, then, bam - they're on my hook and I'm reeling
them in.
Let me give you an example. If I'm at a nightclub, I might stand in a crowed
area - maybe near the bar or ladies restroom. As a woman walks by I'll stick out
my elbow making it inevitable that she'll bump into it. And then in an
overdramatic and offended tone I'll utter: "Ow...you hurt me." Ninety-seven
percent of the time, women will stick their hand out to touch me and apologize
with some variant of, "Oh my...I'm so sorry." I'll usually shoot back with, "You
can touch me but...only if you tell me an interesting story or a funny joke."
Not only is this a bundle of fun but also a powerful means of emotionally
hooking a woman. Once most guys find a woman attractive - usually within the
first few seconds of meeting her - they start thinking of ways to get her
approval, win her over, and prove themselves to her. Put simply, she has them
emotionally hooked and she knows it. Just about anything they do to impress her,
is a sign she is reeling them in even closer. With my example above, however,
I'm doing the opposite. Instead of me proving myself to her, I'm making her
prove herself to me. I'm the sought after Prize, not her.
A caveat: In many contexts it is useful to praise and acknowledge qualities
about a woman you find worthy. This only works, however, if you communicate to
her that your worth is - at the very least - slightly higher than hers.
In every male/female interaction only one person can be the Prize at a given
time. Two people can't simultaneously chase each other. There are exceptions
but, generally speaking, you want the woman chasing you as a Prize she is trying
to win over.
The advantage of having looks, money, fame...or whatever is that sometimes you
have a built in hook with women. In and of it self, though, this is not enough
to hook most women.
That's why the only foolproof road to success with women is having the knowledge
to emotionally hook them regardless of having these things.
I don't care if you have the best pickup lines in the world or the funniest
stories or the coolest car or massive biceps...or whatever. If you can't
emotionally hook a woman in the first few minutes of meeting her, your chances
of success are very slim.
Having, however, the skills and understandings to emotionally hook women,
compelling them to want and reach and chase for more of you, will give you so
much power and choice with women that the possibilities are endless. I've taken
the time and effort to put together a book on attracting women. And a big part
of this book is dedicated to emotionally hooking women, making them compelled to
want and reach and chase for more of you. You won't find the lion's share of
this information in other books. Much of it I discovered through heaps of
testing and experimenting with real women in the real world.
Realize that knowing how to emotionally hook women will transform everything
from meeting and approaching them, to interacting with them, to generating
massive attraction in them, to getting physical and sleeping with them.
Just think how your current success with women will change if you take this
opportunity to crack open my brain and get an insiders look into how I think by
downloading my book today.
Swinggcat "Dr. of Attraction"
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