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How To Use Charisma To Attract Women

By Ray Jensen

Introduction:

Want to attract women with the same level of ease as the biggest movie stars and rockstars that seem to have this 'natural' gift of charisma? Why is charisma so powerful, and how have ordinary looking people (even 'ugly people') achieved such extraordinary sexual desire from the general population?

Learn the psychological principles of charisma and you can literally have the world's most gorgeous women eating out of your hand... Want a second opinion from someone who until a short time ago was completely unknown?

Then ask no-name, no-money Kevin Federline how he reeled in Britney Spears...


If there's a sweet science to boxing, could there be a sweet science to charisma?

Ask a handful of champion boxers to explain the 'sweet science' of boxing, and you're going to get the same answer from all of them. Chin down, hands up, circle left, circle right, step in the bucket, throw combinations, jab, feint, etc...

Ask these champion boxers (and their trainers) how they developed these skills and what specifically they do in training, and they're not going to tell you. They don't want their training methods (secrets) getting out.


Charismatic 'Players' and 'Ladies men' Don't Want To Reveal Their Secrets Either

Performers in show business are the same way. These performers work on their game, some starting at an early age, until they are good enough to finally break into the scene with a small role in a B movie (some do get lucky from the get go, but that's rare). They keep rehearsing for auditions, and keep getting better. Suddenly you've got a George Clooney who evolved from a supporting character (grease mechanic) on Roseanne in the later 80's, to international movie star, as we know him now..

Like any 'true player' who knows how to attract choice women, actors work hard to develop charisma, so they can attract an audience... How to look good on camera, how to command attention, how to talk and use voice inflection, silent pauses, subtle gestures, how to be so bold and entertaining people can't turn the channel because they are so captivated by the actor's CHARISMA.



Why Charisma Creates Sexual Desire In Women


For those of you who think that charisma can't be learned, you might want to take another look, and I'll cite some specific people. Donald Trump is really charismatic (and yet is well known for his sailor's mouth when he loses his temper) and so is Tommy Lee, a trash talking rockstar that has slept with two of the hottest women in modern day Hollywood (Pamela Anderson and Heather Locklear, and more than likely quite a few more than that, including a number of Hugh Hefner's Playboy Bunnies at the Playboy Mansion).

Now, to an outside observer Donald Trump and Tommy Lee are two completely different people. Regarding each one's charisma, they just seem to have different styles which is another point that makes charisma so important. It can work for just about anyone who takes the time to learn it, much like an actor or martial artist.


Tupac

Charisma can be developed by anyone who believes in it and wants it bad enough. Hollywood and the music business are excellent examples. Just look at Tupac Shakur, the deceased rapper. If you look at an early Tupac, just like today's biggest Hollywood movie stars, many were far from charismatic. But with careful training by stage directors and their cohorts (stage coaches, voice coaches, modeling coaches, etc), these celebrities became extremely charismatic. Also, these celebrities became charismatic by carefully reading other people. When people reacted one way to a speech or musical performance, these celebrities made a mental note of what action was done differently to get such a positive response, and then repeated that action even stronger in the next performance. What happened? A bigger reaction from the people. And it just went on from there.

There was a time when charisma only came 'naturally' to a select few, but more than likely (rather than a 'natural' power or gift from the gods) it was a direct result of psychological circumstances regarding the charismatic individual's upbringing.

Nowadays, we know better and we have the information that can teach us (any of us) how to harness the power of charisma and become a truly unstoppable force, whether it's show business, sports, music, or the movies, and in the world of seduction, learning charisma means making yourself really attractive -- make that extremely, extremely attractive -- to the opposite sex.


Give A PUA (Pick Up Artist, Speed Seducer, Hypnotist, etc.) Charisma And His Failing Neg Hits Will Suddenly Seem To Work Magic

That's where charisma blows the neg hitting pua's out of the water. Now give a PUA charisma, and suddenly his neg hits will seem to work magic where before he developed charisma, the neg hits didn't work at all. Go figure.

There's an old saying, and it's what do women want? Well, like everyone else, they want charisma, they want to be around people with charisma... Because in such a mundane existence of everyday life, anything charismatic almost seems magical (unless of course you understand charisma) and the big seduction secret many are starting to discover, is that anyone can develop charisma for themselves.

Subject: Charisma
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Can a person develop charisma, or is it something out of reach for anyone not born with it?

I've seen remarkable transformations in some of the people in my life, and others who seem to stay the same. For one example, if you'd have asked me 15 years ago if my cousin had charisma I'd have laughed in your face. Now, however, he's become a very outgoing, socially conscious, extremely likeable person who I'd have to say is one of the most charismatic people I know. People are drawn to him now, whereas 15 years ago he was avoided by all except family. Did he learn it or he tap into an already inborn ability? He claims he learned it.
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At the beginning, these guys don't have 'true charisma'... but they quickly learn how to 'fake' charisma and the whole thing could be considered an act. Con artists can do this, and that's where we get the term 'confidence tricks'. And when men have to 'fake' charisma out on the town meeting women, it works almost like magic at creating attraction. Men that work on developing charisma can become naturals, and suddenly are sleeping with, even marrying very beautiful, sometimes high-profile women.

Actors can 'fake' charisma as well until it becomes natural, from Brad Pitt to George Clooney, and the list goes on. Tom Cruise, who played Maverick in Top Gun, was one of the most charismatic movie characters to ever come out of pop culture. He was extremely charismatic on the screen (sure, after careful training to seem charismatic), and yes in real life he was not as charismatic as his character.

Now, seducers and players can 'fake' charisma as well to the point that it looks as though they're naturals... Maybe they are and maybe they're not. I think many of them have become naturals.

Does it matter though if they have true charisma or they have to 'fake' it? Would you really feel bad if one night you used a few secrets that made you look and sound a lot more confident, and you always knew what to say and when to say it? And it drove every woman that you talked to wild with desire? When you watch these guys (and I've used these skills myself) they can literally use their charisma to attract women like nothing you've ever witnessed. Actually, maybe you have witnessed it. If actors are not as charismatic in real life, they sure do a great job of projecting it on the screen. Just look at Val Kilmer, Top Gun's Iceman...


Charisma In The Nightclub

I know some guys that can do a better Iceman out in the nightclub, meaning these guys go into 'mode' and blast the room with charismatic 'skills' and get mad attention from choice women, for the sole purpose of meeting the hottest woman there and taking her home. They're the ultimate PUA's, but they're not anything like the PUA's you read about in Neil Strauss's "The Game" for example. They don't seem like PUA's, and they have a hundred times more success. Why? Because women are just drawn to these guys. They're not cocky/funny jackasses, if anything I'd describe them as super cool and super smooth. Sure they can be cocky. Sure they can be funny. But it's all with charisma. It's not the cocky/funny theory you may be reading about on 'Internet Dating Guru' websites.

It's all about the charisma. That will never change. So the longer men don't learn it, the longer that men as a group ignore what charisma can do for them, the longer they're going to go home empty handed at closing time.

PUA's hit on women, trying to talk to fifty or so before they finally get one that will do the deed...

Guys with charisma don't have to hit on women -- women hit on them. Women seduce them. Women want to fuck them.

If I'm a no-name Kevin Federline I really need to turn on the charisma if I'm going to attract a woman like Britney Spears, a pop icon with world wide fame and a massive fortune to match. You should read how she describes him. Britney Spears is captivated by Kevin Federline, and while the rest of the world talks smack about him, just remember he's bagging one of the most popular female music performers ever.

And according to the media, she's taking care of him... Paying his bills, buying him gifts, financing his rap album.

That's charisma at work.

Kevin Federline is a walking Miller Beer commercial, he's living the high-life. A single out-of-work father with no significant background -- an average looking guy in serious need of a haircut -- he went from living like My Name Is Earl to my name is Mr. Britney Spears.

So, what's his secret? Yes, you already know, like so many others before him, and this is straight from the mouth of Britney Spears herself --

He knows how use charisma on women.


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