There are three stages in any relationship:
1) Attraction
2) Seduction
3) Maintain or Abandon Ship
The attraction stage involves flirting and projecting an attractive image. We
play with our hair bit more, use our eyes to attract his attention or appear
mysterious and draw his attention to our legs by crossing and uncrossing them.
We also take as much care as possible to appear at our best. This is the easy
part.
The next stage is when we decide to take things to the next level, usually
sexually. We bring out or sexiest lingerie and scent ourselves with the most
seductive perfumes and body oils imaginable. From there it doesn't take much
hinting to let him know that if he doesn't take you to bed soon, you may direct
all that pent up passion in someone else's direction.
3)Finally there is the maintenance or abandon ship stage. This is the area where
most of us get into trouble.
Here are the errors in judgment that most of us make:
1) We don't take as much care with our appearance. Think back on the beginning
of your relationship. How many times did you wear sweatpants in front of him
then?
Are you taking the same amount of time applying your makeup as you did back
then? When was the last time you brushed your teeth or had a breath mint before
you kissed him?
2) We slack on our exercise routine. When we are trying to attract the love of
our lives, we exercise, eat more salads and generally are so infatuated that we
forget to eat. At the last stage of a relationship, our gym membership cards
seem to get lost and in its place we find Ben and Jerry's and chocolate cake.
3) We forget to keep the mystery in our relationships. Did you actually use the
toilet in front of him when you were first dating? Of course not! Don't let
yourself get so comfortable that you forget that bodily functions are not the
high point of romance.
4) We criticize instead of admiring his best points. In the beginning he was
wonderful and I am sure that you told him so. When was the last time you paid
him a compliment lately?
Finding a man and seducing him is the easy part, despite our occasional slumps.
It is the work that you put in to keeping the seduction, flirtation, mystery and
romance that will keep him on board or send him scurrying to abandon ship.
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